Our society’s thinking has been patterned in such a way that it accepts only sleek women. However, a progressive change in this age old mentality of the society has been noticed in the past few years as more and more guys are coming forward to date the BBW (Big Beautiful Woman) women. Read also: What are the Best Exercises to Reduce Weight
The commonest promotion that every fat girl holds in her mind is that maybe she won’t be able to date anyone, if she isn’t any slimmer. These are the women whose love lives are based on the fear of rejection. Enlisted below are a few pointers that would help get rid of those fears and get a guy for you:
A naturalistic outlook always helps
A woman with a naturalistic outlook won’t never even bother if she weighs a few pounds extra. You don’t have to strive for a size-zero figures that can be seen on many magazine covers.Just be a hotty. There are many men who find obese women HOT! Actually it is their optimistic attitude that attracts men. Their self-esteem and looks are some other enhancements that make the men fall for them. The obese women exhibit themselves as self-confident women who are balanced and own a right attitude, which are the attributes that attract the guys to a major extent.
Try shedding a few pounds
If you big enough to look like a female, it would better if you concentrate on rooting out the causative factor that lead to the stoutness in you. For instance, if it has been caused by some medical problem then get the problem treated or if has been caused any medication that have been consuming over the years then ask the doctor prescribe an alternative medication. Leave the sedentary life style and follow a rigorous exercise regime.Wear appropriate clothing
While you are still working on your slimming regime, you can wear clothes that make you look slimmer. Wear the clothes with layering such as many white long dresses that come in halter neck designs.Keep a smiling face
Smile is one of the most effectual and favorable accessory that truly accessorizes you look no matter what you wear to any place or occasion. It’s your face that people notice first. Remember, fake smiles don’t work at all. Let your eyes do the talking and enchant the viewer in front of you.Enhance the other features in you
Remember that it’s just not your size that accomplishes your beauty but many other features too such as your hairstyle, way of walking and of course your gorgeous face features. Get a flattering hair cut done that truly enhances the look of your face. There are different haircuts for round and square shaped faces.Be self-assured
The biggest pitfall that you can ever experience when you looking forward to bid off a relationship with any man could be only because of a self-conscious attitude. Just impose your self-confidence and let him feel how comfortable you are. Your self-confidence should be able to manifest itself in the other attributes of your such as your appeal, humbleness, caring and loving nature, your intellect etc.Have a sense of humor
Guys just love females with a nice sense of humor. This isn’t something tough for an obese female as they are quite jolly or happy by nature. On the other hand, the females who are tend to be more serious and therefore you hardly appreciate a laughable environ by being around them. Another reason because of which men prefer obese females over the lean ones is that the obese ones are more approachable and trustworthy.Some men who are more interested in figure stats may not find anything interesting in obese females. However, the men who are looking forward to a quality artner would appreciate in being in relationship with an obese woman. All don’t we all know 'Beauty lies in the eyes of the Beholder'!